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| author | Kumar Damani <me@kumardamani.net> | 2026-07-24 04:29:08 +0000 |
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| committer | Kumar Damani <me@kumardamani.net> | 2026-07-24 04:29:08 +0000 |
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diff --git a/post/listing-my-fav-advice.typ b/post/listing-my-fav-advice.typ new file mode 100644 index 0000000..5984f97 --- /dev/null +++ b/post/listing-my-fav-advice.typ @@ -0,0 +1,87 @@ +#import "/global/common.typ": * + +#let doc = [ +I outline my favourite life advice, where I have heard it, and what it means to +me. + += Everything in moderation, including moderation. + +#table( + columns: 2, + stroke: none, + align: center, + img("listing-my-fav-advice/balance.jpg", alt: "balancing rocks"), + img("listing-my-fav-advice/indulgence.jpg", alt: "indulgence painting"), +) + +I first heard this one from Kia, my Jitsu instructor at U of T. The first part +is fairly self-explanatory. The second part says to moderate the moderation. In +other words, on occasion, it is ok to indulge. After all, some of the best +moments in life come from indulgence. Don't be the person who is always +moderating, or you will miss out on 100% of those moments. + +This reminds me of a paradigm in Computation called +#extlink("https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reinforcement_learning")[Reinforcement + Learning] (RL), where learning is maximized by balancing existing knowledge, +with occasional spurts of exploration. Without exploration, we find that we are +generally unlikely to end up at an optimal solution, thus showing us its +importance. + +If the objective of life is to attain long-term (cumulative) happiness, then we +can say that moderation is the current knowledge, and occasional indulgence are +the spurts of exploration, and both must be balanced in order to maximize our +objective. + += Chew your food. Well. + +#fig("listing-my-fav-advice/chewing.gif", alt: "chewing") + +This one I got from my grandparents, and it is quite underrated. We all know +that our digestion health is such a large contributor to our overall +well-being. Yet we religiously neglect the first step of the process - chewing. + +I specifically recall my grandpa saying "_chew it until it becomes a paste_". +Gross but effective. No matter what your diet is composed of, its not debatable +that chewing better will only ever help your digestion, never harm. + +Another benefit? Sitting down and consciously chewing requires time and effort. +If you aren't doing it, maybe its a sign that you are rushing. Why are you +rushing? Maybe its time to re-evaluate some things in your life. + += Don't worry so much about budgeting, focus on earning more. + +#fig("listing-my-fav-advice/money.jpg", alt: "money bob ross") + +This one is somewhat controversial. I heard it from John Hill on the +#extlink("https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/super-hoopers-an-nba-podcast/id1053263719")[Super + Hoopers podcast], quoting some book. I think this stems from the notion that +there is a hard limit to how much you can restrict your spending to - \$0. But +no limit to how much you can earn. So why not focus on that? + +I think this is largely a time-management principle. Maybe you've heard the +idiom "penny wise, and pound foolish". If money is the _penny_, then your time +is the _pound_. Don't be foolish with your time. + +People often will go out of their way believing they are saving a certain +amount of money but hardly ever factor in the value of the time spent saving +that amount. And more often than not, that time is spent doing something that +is not enjoyable. + +That same time could've been spent on trying to earn more money than what was +saved or at the very least doing something actually enjoyable. + += Never work for someone who you don't want to become. + +#fig("listing-my-fav-advice/boss.jpg", alt: "boss", width: "50%") + +This one has helped me substantially in my career. I believe I heard it from +someone on Shark Tank (Mark Cuban? Mr. Wonderful? IIRC). More important than +finding the right role/career is finding the right mentor. I've personally +switched roles based on this advice, and I can attribute most my success as a +direct result of this. + +We tend to emulate people that we are influenced by. By working for such a +manager, you are setting yourself up to emulate someone you look up to - which +is a great thing! I also consider this one of the few advantages of being an +employee rather than an owner. Don't waste it! +] |
